Splendid Advice


Traditionally, weddings put the bride in the spotlight, making the entire event about her more than about anyone else. However, the absolute truth is that it takes two to make a wedding and your groom-to-be will be just as excited about the Big Day as you are.


What are some of the things he secretly wants for the wedding? How to make this event about you, about him and about the love story connecting the two of you as well? We have gathered some tips to help you with this – so read on and find out more.

  • He wants to be listened to – and he wants it from the very beginning of the wedding planning process. You may think he doesn’t want to be involved in the planning, but he probably wants it. He probably wants to be part of the wedding planning decisions and to have a say in everything too. Sure, he may not be great with choosing very particular shades for your color scheme, but he does want to be part of the wedding planning process just as much as you do.

  • He wants his personality reflected in the wedding. Regardless of whether he’s a die-hard Star Wars fan or simply a big appreciator of chocolate cake, your groom will want some of his things to be present in the Big Day too. Talk to him and see how you can incorporate what he loves into the wedding!

  • He wants you to be polite with his guests. Yes, he might invite noisy college roommates and he might invite that overly-attached auntie he has – but he wants you (and everyone else) to be polite to these people. As mentioned in the beginning, this is a huge moment for your groom as well, so he will want to be surrounded by people who matter to him.

Planning a wedding? Want to save yourself the trouble, the stress and the anxiety of doing this? Here at A Splendid Event, we have years of experience in planning magically unforgettable, splendid weddings – so contact us if you want your dream wedding with minimum stress involved!

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